What really matters? I mean what really, really matters? This is a question that has plagued humanity directly or indirectly for centuries.

A girl attended a 3-day church camp, and didn’t hear “jack”, her mind was everywhere else but present, she was so distracted and just going with the motion, then she hears “let’s bow our heads in prayer”
The speaker spoke in a still but soothing voice
“I want you to focus on what really matters… Phil 1:10”
And that simple statement sparked a question and a desire that she now tries to live by. I was that girl, and that girl is me:)

The goal of this podcast is to build a bridge that connects everyone irrespective of race, religion, orientation, ethnicity, age, gender etc and all other categories and labels we as humans have enabled to divide us.
This is for everyone across all spheres of life & I’m here to assist us all to realise & focus on what truly matters.

Love always,

Recent Episode(s)

Apr 10, 2021

My acne, My story! Feat. Olotu Funke

When you have textured and acne-prone skin, do you ever fit into a world where glass skin has become a trend... To begin the docu-series on “my acn…

Apr 1, 2021

All the juicy bits #uncut Feat. Boitumelo Mocheko x Miriam Micheal

On the final episode of the #friendorfoe series and the very first time I’m putting out an uncut episode, we are joined with Boitumelo and Miriam Mi…

Mar 18, 2021

Why we stay in toxic friendships Feat. Stephanie x Mmabatho

The subjective nature of the term “toxic” makes it difficult to define what is toxic and what is quite frankly just human. If no one is perfect,…

Mar 12, 2021

Normalizing friendship breakups Feat Tinashe & Boitumelo

In the first episode of the “Friend or Foe” series, we discuss on the topic “Normalizing friendship breakups” Usually when we discuss breaku…

Mar 2, 2021

On arranged marriages Feat. Lerit x R’jay

Hello refocused hun, The concept of “Arranged marriages” is not new at all. It’s part of a long standing tradition that has declined substantia…

Feb 23, 2021

Idolizing singleness vs Idolizing relationships Feat Sharon x Sindi

By now we all know that idolizing relationships are a thing, but have we also begun to idolize singleness, have we over glorified the wait? On this a…

Feb 17, 2021

To the six single people left in 2021 x Boitumelo Mocheko

Hey Refocused family, I had so much fun recording this episode and I can only hope you enjoy it. Boitumelo and I shared on some reasons why people may…

Feb 7, 2021

Should black women be shamed for desiring white men x Caitlyn

It’s the month of love and I’m sooo excited 💃🏻 In this episode, our amazing guest Caitlyn shares her experience on interracial dating. She o…

Nov 16, 2020

Christian men or whatever Feat. Sandra x Lerato

Have you ever been with a religious person only to find out they actually not that religious. To identify as godly or religious is one thing however,…

Oct 15, 2020

EndSARS : Keeping the story alive!

Over the last few days, young Nigerians all over the country have come out to peacefully protest in the thousands, demanding an end to police brutalit…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *